Forming your Divorce Team
As you navigate the tough emotions and changes that accompany divorce, it is important to have a strong support system that you can lean on and turn to. There are many people who can become a part of your divorce team but as always it is important to make sure that they have your best interest in mind.
Attorney. Finding an attorney that works for you is essential to a good divorce team. You have the ability to shop around, do research, and determine which attorney is best for you. See our article “When is it time to consult with a family law attorney and what to look for in a good attorney” to give you tips on finding the right attorney for you.
Therapist. If you do not already have one, finding a therapist to assist you through the process of divorce is strongly encouraged. Going through the divorce process will affect you, even if you think it will not. It is beneficial to have a neutral third party in the form of a therapist that can give unbiased advice and encouragement along the way. The Law Office of Erin M. Wilson is able to offer referrals to many therapists that specialize in divorce or family law matters.
Financial Planner. When individuals get divorced it is a fact that their financial situation is going to change. Bringing a financial planner into your life may assist you in setting a new budget or setting up new individual accounts. Especially for individuals who may not have had to manage their finances themselves before, appointing a financial planner may be the best option for you to have an expert explain to you the ins and outs of managing your own finances.
Divorce coach. A divorce coach is typically an individual that can serve different roles throughout a divorce. Most commonly, people believe them to be a good source of emotion support. However, they are also able to specialize in co-parenting, communication, healing from the relationship, and can work with one or both parties to resolve parenting issues.
Supportive friends and family. It is no secret that having a strong support network of family and friends is invaluable during the time of divorce. Reach out to your family and friends and do not feel afraid to ask them for support during this time, whether it be emotional support or assistance in babysitting when necessary.
Always keep in mind that during divorce proceedings children should be kept out of the middle. If you are meeting with someone from your support system, make sure that your child is not within earshot of a conversation. Contact The Law Office of Erin M. Wilson LLC for a consultation to determine if we are able to be a part of your divorce team.
NOTICE: This blog is intended solely for informational purposes and should not be construed as providing legal advice. Please feel free to contact us with any questions you may have regarding this blog post.